To the Woman Who Feels Alone,
On the outside things looks just fine. No one knows the hurt that is constantly bubbling just under the surface. No one understands just how hard you have to work to keep it hidden. Your smile is firmly in place but your eyes show a tenderness that I recognize.
I see how you keep your friendships superficial so that people can’t get too close. People seem safer at an arms’ reach, but I remember the loneliness that kind of distance creates. It feels like it should be freeing to not have anyone really know you, but after a while the solitude begins to feel suffocating.
Maybe your business or your marriage or your dreams have failed. Maybe you have some shameful secret that seems to be consuming you. Maybe you are just desperately insecure and fearful. Maybe you’ve been hurt one too many times in the past. It could be a multitude of maybes.
Whatever the reason, you have been hiding behind a mask and it is wearing you out.
The loneliness and the hiding is exhausting.
It is time to shake off the shackles. Don’t let them weigh you down anymore. Shame and guilt have no power over you. Insecurity and fear cannot hold you down. You were not meant to carry that weight.
One of my favorite verses in the Bible is Romans 8:1 “So now there isn’t any condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
No Condemnation. None.
If you are a sinner saved by His boundless and abundant grace, you are no longer a slave to all of those old things that use to weigh so heavily of you. You have complete freedom to live a life released from sin’s bondage.
Come out of hiding.
Live in the light.
1 John 1:7-9 CEB tells us “But if we live in the light in the same way as he is in the light, we have fellowship with each other, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, cleanses us from every sin. If we claim, “We don’t have any sin,” we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. But if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from everything we’ve done wrong.”
It sounds like it’s too simple to be true, but dear woman who feels alone, it isn’t.
It really is that easy.
And it is less lonely than you think because the Bible says we’ve all missed the mark and fallen short. Every one of us.
Matthew 11:28-30 CEB says “Come to me all you who are struggling hard and carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest. Put on my yoke and learn from me. I’m gentle and humble. And you will find rest for yourselves. My yoke is easy to bear, and my burden is light.”
Doesn’t that sound so refreshing?
If you haven’t ever trusted Him as your Savior, what is holding you back? What do you have to lose by letting go of it all and trusting in a God who loves you enough to give His Son as payment for your sin so that you could walk in Freedom?
Galatians 5:1 says that Christ has set us free for freedom. Therefore, we are able to stand firm. We don’t have to submit to the bondage of slavery again.
Think about it for a moment.
Wouldn’t it feel so good to walk in the light? Wouldn’t it feel so good to stop struggling beneath the weight of it all. It would feel so freeing to hand your burdens and struggles and sin and shame and pain to the only one who can help you bear it.
Christian woman who feels alone, release it. Claim your name. You are Redeemed.
Lonely woman who doesn’t know Jesus, meet him. He is the game changer.
I see you, woman who feels alone.
Because I’ve been you.
But now, I’m learning to choose freedom.
Love and blessings,