Do you have a friend that you just feel connected deeply to, like a soul sister?  There is just a really strong bond that binds you two together.  You love them so much that you would do anything for them.  You have even risked your own happiness to be sure that they were happy. Those soul sister relationships are amazing! This morning I was reading through the 1 Samuel account of the friendship of Johnathan and David.  I've always been drawn to this friendship.  It just seems like such a beautiful picture of the kind of relationship that we all want. This friendship was built on love, trust, and care and concern for the other.  1 Sam 18:2 says that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David.  Man! Who doesn't want a friendship like that, one where your very souls are knit together! How does that even happen?  How does that even look?  It's so vastly different than most friendships we see. One of my favorite verses about this relationship, and what I think sets it apart from most friendships is 1Sam 23:16.  "And Saul's son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God." Wow! I'm telling you, there is a big difference between friendships and real, intimate, authentic soul sister relationships.  There is a depth to these soul sister friendships that just goes beyond the norm.  And for me, one of the things that solidifies these soul sister friendships  is that characteristic of strengthening and encouraging one another in God. That's a big deal. A friend can give me advice and listen to me talk.  They can even help, but a soul sister takes you to the feet of Jesus.  They go there with you in prayer and keep you there with their conversation and actions.  They cover you in His love and bathe you in His truth. Spending time with them is like getting a little glimpse of Jesus. I can remember praying earnestly that God would just send me some real soul sisters to encourage me and draw me closer to Him when I was in a difficult season in life. God answered that prayer and I couldn't be more grateful! I've been blessed with a couple of nearly lifelong friendships that I just treasure beyond measure.  They mean the world to me!  However, in the last several years God has knit my heart together with several women in ways that can only be described as divine.  They are my mentors and counsellors.  They are my prayer warriors and ministry partners.  They are the ones who know the nitty gritty, real parts of me and love me anyway. They are also the ones who constantly go with me, hand in hand, to the feet of Jesus. Friends, I can't even begin to describe what an answer to prayer these friends are.  Seek these people out.  Pray for God to send you these soul sisters to strengthen you in God, just like Jonathan and David.  Be the real and authentic you that God created you to be so that these friends can be grounded and genuine.  Ask God to grow your friendships into those soul sisterhoods that you long for.  He is able. And to my soul sisters, I love you.  Thank you for always helping me to find my strength in God. Love and blessings, Bobbie [...]
Today I was reminded of two little words that instantly create a bond.  These two little words can quickly turn strangers in to friends. me too I spoke at our local MOPS meeting on repurposing.  More accurately, I spoke about the work of repurposing furniture and drew some parallels to the way that Jesus has repurposed my life. I was a little nervous.  Speaking doesn't really bother me.   What made me nervous was that I really felt led to drop any pretenses and just be vulnerable and transparent.  Just putting myself out there has always been a little difficult for me.  I have a lot of baggage and a lot of junk.  It's not always easy to just leave all of that exposed. It's scary. but It's also beautiful in the hands of God.  And sometimes necessary. You see, by sharing our story- even the ugly parts- we can show the work that God has done to repurpose us.  We can show the way he has turned messy into a masterpiece.  We can show that nothing is ever too broken to be remade into something beautiful in His hands.  And maybe, hopefully, we can give a little encouragement to someone who knows all too well what it means to be a little worn and tattered. As I spoke today, I looked out into the faces of His beautiful daughters and I didn't see looks of condemnation or judgement.  I saw smiles and some tears.  I saw nods of agreement and lips mouthing "me too".  I felt such love and encouragement.  I felt such connection and community.  I felt my walls crumbling. Those walls that we build around ourselves as protection crumble a little when people are brave enough to be vulnerable .  I think sometimes, God calls us to that type of vulnerability and openness as a way to not only point to His love and mercy and grace, but to connect us to others.  Aren't we all part of the same body? Reach out.  Be bold.  Share.  Encourage.  Uplift.  Point to Jesus.  Connect with people.  Let them see that you are an imperfect person, living your life to glorify a perfect Jesus, so that they can look you in the eyes and say "me too". Love and blessings, Bobbie